"Wow, it was quite a day, wasn't it! Still taking it all in really. I didn't do anything particularily wild to celebrate. Still feel very proud of myself though. Thank you for making me feel so safe"

"You're something else. Almost 2 hours later I'm still on fire (not in a bad way). Thank you is all I really wanted to say. You are the best thing that's happened to me in a long time, possibly ever"

"I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate the work you're doing with me. I feel changes happening the more we progress. Cheers."

"Thank you so much for yesterday, so much less scary than I had anticipated. In truth really enjoyable"

"Sorry for not coming back to you sooner, but I have great news. I met someone rather nice so maybe I come back with a request for tantric couples training but at the moment there is no need for any further sessions. Thanks for all your advice and help so far, which has made this possible."

"I really enjoyed our session. Thank you for your trust, compassion and care, for sharing your wisdom and for offering something of yourself. I felt safe and held and left feeling lovely. Thanks for being such a lovely woman."

"It was lovely to see you on Sunday and to be honest I can't wait til we meet again. I left feeling again very positive and that feeling has continued into the week. I'm starting to get what this is about and the concepts behind it. Pretty amazing stuff, really!"

"Thank you for opening a door for me where before there was nothing but a brick wall. I can't begin to tell you what a difference this is making to my life. Frankly, I had thought several times before about ending it all, but now I m starting to see how being alive can be a great thing."

"So you definately have a lovely touch so my biofeedback was that it was awesome ;-) It's been so long since anyone has touched me in a kind and loving way... it felt good :-) The pieces of the puzzle are starting to come together in my head. No more doom and gloom here. Thank you."

"I would think we're doing alright is an understatement. I would compare my previous experience of tantra to skim-reading a book whereas now we are reading the book carefully, chapter by chapter, word by word and I am really starting to get it."

"It's totally great. It's like you speak "guy" and are able to explain me to my husband in a way he can understand. We haven't felt this close in years and for the first time in a long time I have hope we'll not just pull through this but maybe even create something special together."

"When we started I had little hope but I was desperate. After all I only lasted for seconds even with my prescription numbing cream. So how likely was it that your approach would make a difference where medication did not? I still can't believe it. I'm now lasting ten to fifteen minutes and longer without using anything. I never believed sex could be like this. Thank you so much for your wonderful work. Its literally changed my life."

As the original “tantric surrogate”, Padma Deva is one of the most experienced and accomplished experts on sexual healing and high functioning intimate relationships worldwide.

Padma combines a focus on lasting, profound results and strong impact with a deep commitment to explore and expand the amount of pleasure and contentment we think possible. She thus creates life changing programs for her clients with unparalleled effectiveness and efficiency.    

Having begun her own journey into tantra and healing 20 years ago to overcome a debilitating sexual functioning issue, Padma Deva meets her clients with deep understanding, empathy and tried and tested solutions that she knows really work. Both her own life and her client’s results are living proof of the potency of her teachings.

Padma’s background in management consulting allows her to relate to and understand the challenges and processes of her clients, who are often successful and “too smart for their own good”. As Padma knows all too well, a powerful mind serves well in the corporate world but can be a difficult obstacle to overcome in our personal lives and relationships.

Padma weaves together her knowledge from many varied yet complementary disciplines to create “tantric surrogate” programs of maximum impact through combing knowledge that works with practical instruction and experience. The change that is possible with this is simply extraordinary.

She travels internationally to work with groups, couples, men and women to help them realise their full potential for sexual confidence, ecstasy and authentic intimate fulfilling relationships.

Our exclusive team of amazing surrogates contains men and women of all sexual orientations. Highly trained by Padma herself and closely supervised, our small team is second to none.

From mid thirties to late fifties, our team spans a range of beautiful men and women who feel called to give of themselves to make a positive difference to others.

Our tantric surrogates are compassionate, caring, extraordinary individuals, who are able to meet and support clients fully and open-heartedly. They offer an authentic transmission of loving intimacy, healthy relating and ecstatic sexuality in a safe and supportive framework.

Teaching others how to love themselves, life and others and engage sexually with beauty, integrity and consciousness is one of the most rewarding callings imaginable.

If you feel called to literally "birth men for a living" and join our international team, or if you would simply like to learn the skills to bring out the very best in the men in your life and support them to step into their full power, potency and shining, please take a look at www.birthingyourman.com

Our next yearlong program, which is the prerequsite for our professional surrogate training is starting in May 2020. We are accepting applications for this lifechanging process now!